J can not drive!

Seriously, I am officially taking away his keys when he returns from NJ. He got into another wreck! I can not imagine how much his mother’s insurance on that car is a month. Hopefully she can get some really good new york auto insurance quotes. Oh and the great thing about it, this lady is bringing him to court! I am so glad his brother is a lawyer, they are definitely going to fight it. He said the cop even told him it was her fault, so who knows what is going to happen. He got a ticket for “wreckless driving” though, so wouldn’t that make him at fault? Apparently she didn’t yield at one of those “roundabouts” and she clipped the back of his car.

I don’t know, but he isn’t allowed to drive when he gets home, lol, no thanks. I can’t afford our insurance going up. Wait, won’t ours go up because he was the driver?? UGH!


Big girls need lovin’ too!

We all know I am a big beautiful woman! I love this new bbw chat website. There are so many people on it. It is nice to talk to people who relate to me, especially on weight issues. Heck, you might even find true love! haha. It is absolutely free, which is the great thing about it.

You can video chat, send IMs, view profiles and more. These women are from all over the world! Though, not even going to lie, there is a smaller framed woman on the front page! Maybe she loves big woman! haha.

I’m going to sign up and see who I can meet!


Summer camping trip?

I LOVE CAMPING! Seriously LOVE it. I grew up around a bunch of boys,  so I was very much a tom boy. I was right behind my brothers in the woods, picking up the worms, even snakes! Though, I wouldn’t do that now because I’m much smarter and more of a wuss. Haha. I’ve been trying to talk Jeremy into going camping since he hasn’t been since his Boy Scout days! There are so many places to get gear now. Even nice Blackhawk Holsters. I think once he comes home we’re going! I know a perfect place in Mississippi that I’ve been going to since birth! I can’t wait!


I can’t sleep anymore!

Lately I’ve had nothing but a hard time sleeping. I toss and turn all night. I wake up almost every hour. It’s worse than a horrible nightmare! Even when I take a sleeping aid, I’m up within a few hours. I was doing some research and found that, it isn’t me! It’s my bed! I never realized my bed could cause me sleepless nights. So, I’ve been looking for electric adjustable beds. This would be perfect for Jeremy and I. His side could be on a certain comfort level and I could change mine to whatever I wanted. They also have hi-low beds, which make the bed go lower to the floor, so it’s easier to get out of! Just what I need.

These beds help out back pain, Asthma Arthritis, Acid reflux, hernias, Breathing disorders, Varicose veins, Swollen legs and feet, Phlebitis.

I love the sleep tips goldenrest gives you, I’ll definitely be following them tonight!

  • Be sure to take care of the things you need to before settling down for bed. You need to be able to put your mind at ease and resolve any stress you may have. If your mind is racing too much, you will be too occupied thinking about other things, instead of sleeping.
  • Sleep on a mattress that is right for you. If you are consistently tossing, turning and waking up during the night, you should find a more suitable bed or mattress.
  • Make your bedroom more comfortable. You should adjust your bedroom’s environment to suit the way you need it. This can deal with the lighting, humidity, temperature and noise levels within the room. There are devices out there to help you achieve your desired environment, such as, fans, humidifiers, earplugs, heated blankets, blackout curtains and eye covers.
  • Refrain from consuming any stimulants before bed, such as caffeine. This can prevent you from falling asleep or prevent the deep sleep your body needs.
  • Avoid drinking alcohol just before bed. This may help you fall asleep faster, but it can cause you to wake up throughout the night whether you notice it or not. This will cause you to wake up tired even though you may have gotten a full night’s rest.
  • Develop a routine just before bedtime. This can help your body realize when it’s time to go to sleep and begin to calm down to help you get there faster.
  • If you are having trouble falling asleep, or if you wake up during the night and can’t get back to sleep, then you should get up and find some activity to do and then go back to bed. Don’t stress over the fact that you aren’t asleep yet.
  • Use sleeping pills as a last resort. If you are continuously having problems sleeping more than three times a week then you should check with your doctor. It is possible that you could have a sleep disorder. It is important to identify and treat the cause of your sleep disturbance so you can quickly get back to getting a good night’s sleep.

My Disney World adventure.

Did I ever mention that I LOVE Disney World? I have only been once though. It was my mothers and my step dads favorite place. They even got married there. They went at least twice a year for five years. They would come home with hundreds of pictures and videos and they were always so happy. I still have all of them, since my mom passed and I think it’s so hard for my step dad. When Jeremy and I have kids, I plan to take all of them there, as many times as we can. It’s the one place in the world where “dreams do come true” Oh, how I live Disney World.

The one time I went, it was me, my best friend at the time, my two brothers and my mother and step father. They let me bring a friend along that way I had someone to ride on the rides with, since my brothers had each other. I remember the whole car ride to Orlando, which was about fifteen hours, we lived in New Orleans at the time, we played games. Games for money! I already had about a hundred dollars in spending money, but my step dad would ask us really random questions for more. I remember my last question was “what color was the ladies toes that just drove by us” RED! I remember looking at her feet as she sat in the passenger seat of the van that passed us! haha, it was hilarious! I made fifty dollars off of that ladies toes!

When we got to Disney World, I was in awe. I’d never seen anything like it before. So beautiful. Also, this was my first time in Florida. We went to our hotel… I don’t remember which one, we stayed in one in Disney World… It was nice. As soon as we got there we wanted to go ride some rides. I remember waiting in line for the Tower of Terror was almost an hour and when we finally got up there, my brother Derrick chickened out and started crying, lol, that was a sight to see. So, they escorted him back down, but no, not me! I rode that thing TWICE. It was so much fun! My other favorite ride was a car one… I think it had something to do with Back To The Future. I remember it pretended like you were going to crash, but it would move you out of the way really quick, haha. My other favorite ride was Sponge Bob. The seats moved you up and down, like you were in his car. It was great.

Disney World is amazing. I can’t wait to bring my kids. I’ll definitely be using discount Disney tickets though, I’m sure they’re pretty expensive these days.